You have read about BDSM and may have seen it on the big screen, but have you ever tried it? No? Let us first tell you what BDSM starts for. It is short for bondage & discipline, dominance & submission and sadism & masochism. This is one of the most fun sexual activities that you can indulge in and once you’ve tried it with London Party Girls’ BDSM escorts in London, you will wonder why you have waited for so long.
But, we would like to warn you that BDSM is not for everyone. However, you can find that out and our escort girls will help you discover your kinks and fetishes.
So, do you want some beginner’s advice to BDSM? Keep reading.
- Consent – Whether BDSM or even vanilla, consent is one of the most important aspects of any kind of intimate encounter. It is important that both parties are aware of what is happening and both consent to it. So, you need to discuss your preferences and desires with the dominatrix mistress that you hire and make sure that she agrees.
- Safe word – You must never ever start a BDSM scene or play without deciding on a safe word. Also, make sure that the safe word is something uncommon. You cannot choose easy words like ‘no’ and ‘stop’ as these are words that are sometimes yelled in utter joy. So, the best words would be ones that are not related to your activity at all. You have to know that BDSM can sometimes get out of hands. For instance, you may enjoy being choked and like the feeling of not being able to breathe. But, your domme has to understand how much of the choking you can take before passing out. So, you have to use the safe word when you think the choking is getting out of hand.
- Talking – BDSM is one of those sexual activities where our BDSM escorts in London will like you to talk and communicate your specific feelings. The success of this activity depends on clear communication. You have to tell your domme about the things you are enjoying, where you need more force and where you need her to stop.
- Do not rush and start small – If you have never been a slave to someone before and have only engaged in vanilla sex, it is good to start small. Do not try to attempt the activities that pros do. For instance, if you want to see how it feels to be spanked, let the domme use her hands. If you enjoy the sensation, she can advance to using floggers, whips, canes or paddles. But, do not straight away start with the toy. You might not like the stingy sensation.
You must have heard that intimacy is an art, especially BDSM. There are certain staple toys and gear that makes BDSM experience juicier. The starter kit includes:
- Latex or leather costumes and dresses
- High boots with heels that are usually used in foot play and foot worship
- Blindfold or eye patch
- Gall balls in various sizes and styles
- Handcuffs, scarves and bondage ropes
- Paddles
- Whips, floggers and canes
These are the common toys that you will find in the dungeon of our BDSM escorts in London. But, when you are ready to move to the advanced level BDSM play, you will be introduced to more toys like, nipple clamps, anus beads, vibrators, dildos, chastity belts and so on. All of these toys help in torturing the submissive and keeping him from achieving instant gratification. After all, BDSM is all about the tease and the slow ascent to the edge, only to come back down again.
If you’ve always wanted to experience BDSM and find out your kinks, you need to get in touch with London Party Girls. We have an amazing selection of BDSM mistresses in London who are known for their well-toned bodies, gorgeous looks and years of experience. Most of them have been professionally trained in the school of London dominatrix. So, talk to us and schedule an appointment. We guarantee discreet services and complete satisfaction in the satisfaction of our sultry, sexy and stunning dominatrixes.
